Day Fifteen:
"But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
. . ." 2 Pet. 3:18a
Sometimes we live so close to our spouse that we fail to see him as others do; we only see our husband's faults. But take a step back. Perhaps he is growing spiritually in ways you have failed to appreciate. How can you encourage his growth in a fresh, new way? Remember—your husband is accountable to God for his spiritual development. You are accountable to God to encourage and not hinder that growth.
Can you identify an area of spiritual strength in your husband? Does he pray or read his Bible regularly? Does he like to read about or discuss spiritual matters? Does he go to church with you? Is he a spiritual leader? What do others say about him? If you can identify a specific area, praise him for that. If not, pray earnestly that God will work in his heart, and watch for signs of spiritual growth in the future.
Monday, March 31, 2008
Here are the challege posts for Friday-Sunday
Day Twelve:
"With all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love." Eph. 4:2
Part of the difficulty you may face as you continue in this 30-day challenge to encourage your husband is that you really are struggling to find positive things to praise. Perhaps the problem is not with your husband. Have you checked your own heart?
Sometimes we get disillusioned because of our own unreasonable or unrealistic expectations (Prov. 13:12). It may not be that our mates are doing something wrong; it's simply that we expect too much in some areas. Our expectations must be met in God alone, and then we will have the right perspective to ask God for the healing and grace we need to respond to others.
How sad that we give more grace to others than to those in our own homes. Today, try to look at your husband through eyes of grace. Verbally thank your husband for what he is already doing.
Day Thirteen:
"I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me." Song of Solomon 7:10
The sexual relationship. It's one of those elements—along with money and children—that can derail a marriage through negative comments. Negativity destroys intimacy, but encouragement builds and strengthens the marriage bond.
Let's get practical here. Is your husband a "good lover"? Have you told him so? Be specific. Let him know when he pleases you. Most husbands genuinely want to please their wives, especially in this important area of marriage.
In moments of intimacy, do you find your mind wandering? This can change as you focus on something wonderful about your husband. Realize that your husband wants intimacy with you . . . his desire is toward you.
Does this area of your marriage need some work? Remember that this is a sensitive area for men. Be sure to encourage his lovemaking and masculinity in positive ways.
Day Fourteen:
"The righteous man walks in his integrity . . ." Prov. 20:7a
Every week there are news reports about men who gave in to temptations and compromised what they said they believed. We hear countless reports about dishonest business dealings, hidden infidelity, and hypocritical leaders. It's so easy to focus on these things and ignore those who are being honest, faithful and genuine. As you continue in the "30-Day Encouragement Challenge," determine to look for ways that your husband stands against the culture.
Is your spouse a man of integrity? Is he fair in his dealings with people? Does he understand the meaning of justice? Is he honest in business? Unhypocritical in his faith? Consider all the ways a man can live in integrity, and praise your husband for one of them. As you have the opportunity—as it is appropriate—share examples of your husband's honesty and integrity with others.
"With all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love." Eph. 4:2
Part of the difficulty you may face as you continue in this 30-day challenge to encourage your husband is that you really are struggling to find positive things to praise. Perhaps the problem is not with your husband. Have you checked your own heart?
Sometimes we get disillusioned because of our own unreasonable or unrealistic expectations (Prov. 13:12). It may not be that our mates are doing something wrong; it's simply that we expect too much in some areas. Our expectations must be met in God alone, and then we will have the right perspective to ask God for the healing and grace we need to respond to others.
How sad that we give more grace to others than to those in our own homes. Today, try to look at your husband through eyes of grace. Verbally thank your husband for what he is already doing.
Day Thirteen:
"I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me." Song of Solomon 7:10
The sexual relationship. It's one of those elements—along with money and children—that can derail a marriage through negative comments. Negativity destroys intimacy, but encouragement builds and strengthens the marriage bond.
Let's get practical here. Is your husband a "good lover"? Have you told him so? Be specific. Let him know when he pleases you. Most husbands genuinely want to please their wives, especially in this important area of marriage.
In moments of intimacy, do you find your mind wandering? This can change as you focus on something wonderful about your husband. Realize that your husband wants intimacy with you . . . his desire is toward you.
Does this area of your marriage need some work? Remember that this is a sensitive area for men. Be sure to encourage his lovemaking and masculinity in positive ways.
Day Fourteen:
"The righteous man walks in his integrity . . ." Prov. 20:7a
Every week there are news reports about men who gave in to temptations and compromised what they said they believed. We hear countless reports about dishonest business dealings, hidden infidelity, and hypocritical leaders. It's so easy to focus on these things and ignore those who are being honest, faithful and genuine. As you continue in the "30-Day Encouragement Challenge," determine to look for ways that your husband stands against the culture.
Is your spouse a man of integrity? Is he fair in his dealings with people? Does he understand the meaning of justice? Is he honest in business? Unhypocritical in his faith? Consider all the ways a man can live in integrity, and praise your husband for one of them. As you have the opportunity—as it is appropriate—share examples of your husband's honesty and integrity with others.
Been MIA!
Howdy! Sorry to have been MIA for several days. My dizziness overtook me and I spent much of the end of last week trying to keep the room from spinning out from under me. I only did the stuff I needed to do till Friday.
In the midst of feeling like yucko, I did go to the store, and while I was there, the county came by about the dogs. Register them or else. Okay, not a problem, but DON'T tell me you and your crew are coming back on Saturday via a very official piece of paper and NOT show up! GRRR...
Friday night, Tom and I were able to get out for a little bit and go to Applebee's for dinner. By the time we got home, I was dizzy again. Saturday, I was able to take Mikaija to the mall to spend her Claire's gift card and so I could look at front loading washer/dryer combos. By the time we got out of there, I was pretty dizzy again. If I go out today, I'm going to hit Kaiser for some meclazine and see if that helps. Yesterday, I was a little dizzy but not like the rest of the week.
Since I was feeling better on Sunday, I went to church. Amber went forward for baptism! In evening service, Living Proof/Primary Focus was visiting, and gave a wonderful concert. These kids are amazing! My friend, Gina had 5 of the young ladies spending the night at her house, so Mikaija and I spent till very late at Gina's with these girls. We had lots of fun, and we learned a lot about their ministry.
Today we have a lot of school to get done, and hit the ground running hard.
I will post the days for the challenge so I can get caught up.
In the midst of feeling like yucko, I did go to the store, and while I was there, the county came by about the dogs. Register them or else. Okay, not a problem, but DON'T tell me you and your crew are coming back on Saturday via a very official piece of paper and NOT show up! GRRR...
Friday night, Tom and I were able to get out for a little bit and go to Applebee's for dinner. By the time we got home, I was dizzy again. Saturday, I was able to take Mikaija to the mall to spend her Claire's gift card and so I could look at front loading washer/dryer combos. By the time we got out of there, I was pretty dizzy again. If I go out today, I'm going to hit Kaiser for some meclazine and see if that helps. Yesterday, I was a little dizzy but not like the rest of the week.
Since I was feeling better on Sunday, I went to church. Amber went forward for baptism! In evening service, Living Proof/Primary Focus was visiting, and gave a wonderful concert. These kids are amazing! My friend, Gina had 5 of the young ladies spending the night at her house, so Mikaija and I spent till very late at Gina's with these girls. We had lots of fun, and we learned a lot about their ministry.
Today we have a lot of school to get done, and hit the ground running hard.
I will post the days for the challenge so I can get caught up.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Challenge Day 11
Day Eleven:
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord." Eph. 5:22
Women who are constantly negative toward their husbands—especially by speaking evil of them to others—show great disrespect. Determine not to do that today (or ever!). This challenge to encourage is closely connected to submission.
Men respond to women who respect them. What do you respect about your husband? Part of that respect includes submission to his authority. Let your husband know how respecting him makes it easier to submit to his leadership. Show your respect in public by listening to him and smiling at him when he speaks. Place your hand in his as you walk together.
If you feel there is nothing to respect, search harder . . . nearly every man has some core characteristic that can be nurtured and respected. In any case, you must still cultivate a submissive spirit to his position of leadership . . ."as to the Lord."
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord." Eph. 5:22
Women who are constantly negative toward their husbands—especially by speaking evil of them to others—show great disrespect. Determine not to do that today (or ever!). This challenge to encourage is closely connected to submission.
Men respond to women who respect them. What do you respect about your husband? Part of that respect includes submission to his authority. Let your husband know how respecting him makes it easier to submit to his leadership. Show your respect in public by listening to him and smiling at him when he speaks. Place your hand in his as you walk together.
If you feel there is nothing to respect, search harder . . . nearly every man has some core characteristic that can be nurtured and respected. In any case, you must still cultivate a submissive spirit to his position of leadership . . ."as to the Lord."
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Challenge Day 10
Day Ten:
We all crave appreciation. We want to know that we are valued and loved. Early love letters probably reflected our admiration, but if we're not careful, our spouse will forget why we were drawn to him. If you still have any of your old love letters, re-read them for clues to deepen your current level of appreciation for your spouse. When we spend time criticizing our husbands, we lose time that could be spent admiring them. As you consider various ways to encourage your husband, ask, "How can I admire him?"
Does your husband know that you think he is attractive? What was one of the characteristics in your husband that first drew you to him? Was it a physical characteristic, or something else?
Was it his gentle, compassionate eyes? Kindness or concern for others? An easy-going confidence? A steadiness that comes from trusting in the Lord? Strength of character in a culture that lacks integrity? Do you see at least a glimpse of that characteristic in him today? Whatever it is, tell him!
We all crave appreciation. We want to know that we are valued and loved. Early love letters probably reflected our admiration, but if we're not careful, our spouse will forget why we were drawn to him. If you still have any of your old love letters, re-read them for clues to deepen your current level of appreciation for your spouse. When we spend time criticizing our husbands, we lose time that could be spent admiring them. As you consider various ways to encourage your husband, ask, "How can I admire him?"
Does your husband know that you think he is attractive? What was one of the characteristics in your husband that first drew you to him? Was it a physical characteristic, or something else?
Was it his gentle, compassionate eyes? Kindness or concern for others? An easy-going confidence? A steadiness that comes from trusting in the Lord? Strength of character in a culture that lacks integrity? Do you see at least a glimpse of that characteristic in him today? Whatever it is, tell him!
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Challenge Day 9
Day Nine:
We are often so busy speaking that we don't take time to listen. We are so quick to offer a comment - negative or positive—that we don't really "hear" our husband's heart. Remember: we have two ears and only one mouth. We need to listen more!
As you continue in your 30-day challenge, not speaking negatively and focusing on positive encouragement, hear the Lord's admonition today: "Be swift to hear." If listening is a real problem for you, play a game with yourself. See if you can listen to your husband for one whole day, only speaking when asked a question. If your husband notices the difference, explain that you are learning to listen more-not only to God, but also to him.
One easy way to express admiration for your husband is to ask a question about something he enjoys, and then listen to his response. If it's an area of personal familiarity, keep asking questions until you learn something you didn't know, then tell him, "Wow, I didn't know that!"
We are often so busy speaking that we don't take time to listen. We are so quick to offer a comment - negative or positive—that we don't really "hear" our husband's heart. Remember: we have two ears and only one mouth. We need to listen more!
As you continue in your 30-day challenge, not speaking negatively and focusing on positive encouragement, hear the Lord's admonition today: "Be swift to hear." If listening is a real problem for you, play a game with yourself. See if you can listen to your husband for one whole day, only speaking when asked a question. If your husband notices the difference, explain that you are learning to listen more-not only to God, but also to him.
One easy way to express admiration for your husband is to ask a question about something he enjoys, and then listen to his response. If it's an area of personal familiarity, keep asking questions until you learn something you didn't know, then tell him, "Wow, I didn't know that!"
Monday, March 24, 2008
Sunrise Service
Yesterday, our Pastor preached the Sunrise Service at a local outside ampitheatre. I was blessed this morning to find the sermon and soloist on You Tube. Enjoy:
He's Alive!
Sermon part 1
Part 2
Part 3
He's Alive!
Sermon part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Challenge Day 8
Day Eight:
How are you doing with the "30-Day Encouragement Challenge"? In case you've forgotten, here's the challenge:
* You can't say anything negative about your husband ...to your husband...or to anyone else, about your husband.
* Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband...to your husband...and to someone else, about your husband!
"...but who can find a faithful man?" Prov. 20:6b
Faithfulness is a wonderful but rare quality today, especially in regard to marriage. Do you understand how important this quality is? Your challenge is to continue to root out all negative speaking, and plant seeds of encouragement instead. You may be amazed at what will grow.
Contemporary culture often entices men to be unfaithful to their wedding vows and spiritual commitments. Appreciate your husband's faithfulness - how he is loyal to you. Let him know that you are glad he has "stick-to-it-iveness" in your marriage. Appreciate his faithfulness to God. (If you have an unfaithful husband, this is a difficult area for you. Pray, speak the truth in love, remain faithful yourself, and discover ways to encourage faithfulness in your mate. The Bible says that husbands may "...be won by the conduct of their wives" [1 Pet. 3:1]. You may also want to seek counsel from a mature, godly individual or couple.)
How are you doing with the "30-Day Encouragement Challenge"? In case you've forgotten, here's the challenge:
* You can't say anything negative about your husband ...to your husband...or to anyone else, about your husband.
* Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband...to your husband...and to someone else, about your husband!
"...but who can find a faithful man?" Prov. 20:6b
Faithfulness is a wonderful but rare quality today, especially in regard to marriage. Do you understand how important this quality is? Your challenge is to continue to root out all negative speaking, and plant seeds of encouragement instead. You may be amazed at what will grow.
Contemporary culture often entices men to be unfaithful to their wedding vows and spiritual commitments. Appreciate your husband's faithfulness - how he is loyal to you. Let him know that you are glad he has "stick-to-it-iveness" in your marriage. Appreciate his faithfulness to God. (If you have an unfaithful husband, this is a difficult area for you. Pray, speak the truth in love, remain faithful yourself, and discover ways to encourage faithfulness in your mate. The Bible says that husbands may "...be won by the conduct of their wives" [1 Pet. 3:1]. You may also want to seek counsel from a mature, godly individual or couple.)
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Challenge Day 7
Day Seven:
"Do not overwork to be rich; because of your own understanding, cease!...for riches certainly make themselves wings..." Prov. 23:4-5
"That I may cause those who love me to inherit wealth, that I may fill their treasuries." Proverbs 8:21
Money is the root of much marital discord. Ask yourself, "Am I being negative toward my husband in the area of finances?" Determine not to speak evil of your husband in this area. Discover ways to encourage and help him instead.
Does your husband handle finances wisely? Does he make good financial investments, based on biblical principles? Does he have a budget? Does he make wise decisions about purchases - checking many sources before he buys? Is he a good steward of his money before the Lord? Let him know how much you appreciate his strengths in financial matters.
If he is weak in this area, encourage any good decisions that he does make. Perhaps you can help him, if he's open to the idea, by organizing financial files or providing other practical assistance. Or, if he wants you to handle the finances, ask for his input before you make decisions that will affect him.
"Do not overwork to be rich; because of your own understanding, cease!...for riches certainly make themselves wings..." Prov. 23:4-5
"That I may cause those who love me to inherit wealth, that I may fill their treasuries." Proverbs 8:21
Money is the root of much marital discord. Ask yourself, "Am I being negative toward my husband in the area of finances?" Determine not to speak evil of your husband in this area. Discover ways to encourage and help him instead.
Does your husband handle finances wisely? Does he make good financial investments, based on biblical principles? Does he have a budget? Does he make wise decisions about purchases - checking many sources before he buys? Is he a good steward of his money before the Lord? Let him know how much you appreciate his strengths in financial matters.
If he is weak in this area, encourage any good decisions that he does make. Perhaps you can help him, if he's open to the idea, by organizing financial files or providing other practical assistance. Or, if he wants you to handle the finances, ask for his input before you make decisions that will affect him.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Today
we had the 2nd Annual Easter Egg Hunt at our church. Tom, Mikaija and I helped to distribute 18,000 plastic eggs among the grassy areas of our complex. Took lots of people and a couple of hours to put it all out, but only about 5 or so minutes for the eggs to be gone! ;-) God is good, and MANY happy children were seen after the hunt.
Challenge Day 6
Day Six:
"...whatever ye do, do all to the glory of God." 1 Cor. 10:31b
Do you recognize and appreciate your husband's creativity? Or do you criticize and demean his efforts? Instead of negativity, determine to be positive. Perhaps you can help your husband see that his efforts are an opportunity to glorify God.
Is your husband the "creative" type? Does he have any artistic gifts? What is that special "knack" he has? Affirm him for his handiwork - a hobby, music, gardening, tinkering with cars, working with wood, etc. Remember: Even if he doesn't measure up to your standards, praise his efforts. If your budget allows, buy him a book or magazine that will continue to encourage his special skill or talent.
If you have a hard time finding his "creative side," understand that men's creativity sometimes is related to their work. Find something he does to make his job run more smoothly or something he does that adds value to his work...and let him know that you have noticed.
Make his day...Praise his accomplishments in public, while he is listening.
"...whatever ye do, do all to the glory of God." 1 Cor. 10:31b
Do you recognize and appreciate your husband's creativity? Or do you criticize and demean his efforts? Instead of negativity, determine to be positive. Perhaps you can help your husband see that his efforts are an opportunity to glorify God.
Is your husband the "creative" type? Does he have any artistic gifts? What is that special "knack" he has? Affirm him for his handiwork - a hobby, music, gardening, tinkering with cars, working with wood, etc. Remember: Even if he doesn't measure up to your standards, praise his efforts. If your budget allows, buy him a book or magazine that will continue to encourage his special skill or talent.
If you have a hard time finding his "creative side," understand that men's creativity sometimes is related to their work. Find something he does to make his job run more smoothly or something he does that adds value to his work...and let him know that you have noticed.
Make his day...Praise his accomplishments in public, while he is listening.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Challenge Day 5
Day Five:
"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers." Eph. 4:29
Another way to describe the positive side of this "30-Day Encouragement Challenge" is by using the word "edify," which means, "to build up." Negative comments only discourage and tear down. Positive comments encourage and build.
Do you edify your husband before others, adding to his value in their eyes? This is especially important to other family members.
Do you praise your husband to his relatives, and yours? Does your husband's mother know how much you love him? How about your dad? Perhaps you can drop a word of praise into a conversation or letter. Be creative in letting your relatives know that you respect your husband, love him, and support him - in spite of whatever flaws and weaknesses he may have.
"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers." Eph. 4:29
Another way to describe the positive side of this "30-Day Encouragement Challenge" is by using the word "edify," which means, "to build up." Negative comments only discourage and tear down. Positive comments encourage and build.
Do you edify your husband before others, adding to his value in their eyes? This is especially important to other family members.
Do you praise your husband to his relatives, and yours? Does your husband's mother know how much you love him? How about your dad? Perhaps you can drop a word of praise into a conversation or letter. Be creative in letting your relatives know that you respect your husband, love him, and support him - in spite of whatever flaws and weaknesses he may have.
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Challenge Day 4
Day Four:"
...let him labor, working with his hands what is good..." Eph. 4:28
We are all accountable for the things we say, both negative and positive words. Have you embraced the challenge to speak only positive things to your husband and to others about him? Here's a suggestion that touches the core of your husband's world.
Some women take their husband's career for granted, and they show it in many ways. Do you "dump" on your husband at the end of the workday, or do you strengthen and encourage him with your words? A wise wife will make her husband feel that she values and appreciates his work. Let him know that you are glad he is a hard worker. Take opportunities to praise his diligence and resourcefulness to others.
If your husband is out of work, unable to work, or refuses to work, you'll need to be more creative. Praise him for a character quality that you see in him that would be a vital part of a successful career - such as persistence, decisiveness, strength, an analytical mind, organizational skills, good with people, good listener, determination, etc.
...let him labor, working with his hands what is good..." Eph. 4:28
We are all accountable for the things we say, both negative and positive words. Have you embraced the challenge to speak only positive things to your husband and to others about him? Here's a suggestion that touches the core of your husband's world.
Some women take their husband's career for granted, and they show it in many ways. Do you "dump" on your husband at the end of the workday, or do you strengthen and encourage him with your words? A wise wife will make her husband feel that she values and appreciates his work. Let him know that you are glad he is a hard worker. Take opportunities to praise his diligence and resourcefulness to others.
If your husband is out of work, unable to work, or refuses to work, you'll need to be more creative. Praise him for a character quality that you see in him that would be a vital part of a successful career - such as persistence, decisiveness, strength, an analytical mind, organizational skills, good with people, good listener, determination, etc.
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Yesterday's Challenge
Yesterday's challenge was a little tough for me. Why? because I was being selfish. I'd had my torture, I mean massage, and wasn't reacting well to the effects of that plus the prednisone I've been on to get my asthma back under control. Poor Tom, calls me as I'm in traffic, after having gotten sick at the massage place, wanting me to bid on something for his bike. I was little grumpy. Of course the poor guy had NO WAY of knowing why I was grumpy. On top of it, it was Tom's hospital visitation night.
We had several visits to make, so off we went. The first one, once again was sweet Mary. She was happy to see us, and we to see her. The second was not only a difficult one to visit, but getting to her was like going through prison security. Took us longer to get in to see her, than it took for us to pray over her and her room mate. The next two were contrasts. First was a gentleman that Tom and I had seen for a number of years at our church, and bless his heart, he is on comfort care, meaning his time on this planet is coming to an end. This visit was difficult for me, as the gentleman was exhibiting the 'signs' that my Father-in-love did as he was passing. Next was a lady that was recovering from surgery, and doing quite well, and looking forward to going home today. Our final visit was a two in one at a local nursing home, and the first gentleman is always glad to see us. He's a neat, neat man. Our final visit was with the mother of a friend, that we've known for many years, and it was a long visit, as she had lots to share and lots of prayer requests.
I'm so thankful for Tom's spirit during the visits. He is an example of respect and kindess to those who need a listening ear, or just a smile of encouragement. Watching him, during visitation reminded me that it's not about me, but about showing God's love to others through me. For that I'm grateful.
We had several visits to make, so off we went. The first one, once again was sweet Mary. She was happy to see us, and we to see her. The second was not only a difficult one to visit, but getting to her was like going through prison security. Took us longer to get in to see her, than it took for us to pray over her and her room mate. The next two were contrasts. First was a gentleman that Tom and I had seen for a number of years at our church, and bless his heart, he is on comfort care, meaning his time on this planet is coming to an end. This visit was difficult for me, as the gentleman was exhibiting the 'signs' that my Father-in-love did as he was passing. Next was a lady that was recovering from surgery, and doing quite well, and looking forward to going home today. Our final visit was a two in one at a local nursing home, and the first gentleman is always glad to see us. He's a neat, neat man. Our final visit was with the mother of a friend, that we've known for many years, and it was a long visit, as she had lots to share and lots of prayer requests.
I'm so thankful for Tom's spirit during the visits. He is an example of respect and kindess to those who need a listening ear, or just a smile of encouragement. Watching him, during visitation reminded me that it's not about me, but about showing God's love to others through me. For that I'm grateful.
Challenge Day 3
Day Three:
"...love suffers long, and is kind..." 1 Cor. 13:4
"And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Phil. 4:19
Love indeed suffers long and is kind. As you consider your Encouragement Challenge, determine today that you will not say anything negative to or about your husband. Speak kindly to him with words of genuine encouragement.
If your husband is considerate of your needs, let him know that you have noticed. Thank him for his kindness and consideration. Thank the Lord that your husband knows how to be both tough and tender.
Sometimes it's difficult for a man to be gentle, kind or tender - especially if he hasn't had role models in these areas. If he's not a considerate person, appeal to him for help without complaining. Let him know that it's hard for you to handle some things alone. Then, when he moves in to help, don't insist that he do it your way. Be glad that he is responding, and express your gratitude.
Ultimately, you can't expect your husband to make you feel more secure, loved, etc. Remember that only God can meet the deepest needs of your heart.
"...love suffers long, and is kind..." 1 Cor. 13:4
"And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Phil. 4:19
Love indeed suffers long and is kind. As you consider your Encouragement Challenge, determine today that you will not say anything negative to or about your husband. Speak kindly to him with words of genuine encouragement.
If your husband is considerate of your needs, let him know that you have noticed. Thank him for his kindness and consideration. Thank the Lord that your husband knows how to be both tough and tender.
Sometimes it's difficult for a man to be gentle, kind or tender - especially if he hasn't had role models in these areas. If he's not a considerate person, appeal to him for help without complaining. Let him know that it's hard for you to handle some things alone. Then, when he moves in to help, don't insist that he do it your way. Be glad that he is responding, and express your gratitude.
Ultimately, you can't expect your husband to make you feel more secure, loved, etc. Remember that only God can meet the deepest needs of your heart.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Challenge Day Two
Day Two:
"...through love serve one another." Gal. 5:13b
How did you do yesterday with your first day of blessing and encouraging your husband? Was it easy? Was it hard to hold your tongue when you wanted to say something negative? We hope you're off to a good start. (If you blew it, don't give up - start again today!) There are so many practical things you can praise, if you look for them.
Today, find some way that your husband is serving you or your family. Does he help around the house? Take care of the car? Fix things that are broken? If your budget allows, give him a new, small tool with a big bow attached. But make sure he doesn't think it's part of a "Honey Do" list!
Maybe your husband's not a handyman, but does he run errands for you? Let you go first? Take care of you when you are sick? Help you make decisions? Praise him for his willingness to serve others. Let him know that you see his unique service as a great strength.
"...through love serve one another." Gal. 5:13b
How did you do yesterday with your first day of blessing and encouraging your husband? Was it easy? Was it hard to hold your tongue when you wanted to say something negative? We hope you're off to a good start. (If you blew it, don't give up - start again today!) There are so many practical things you can praise, if you look for them.
Today, find some way that your husband is serving you or your family. Does he help around the house? Take care of the car? Fix things that are broken? If your budget allows, give him a new, small tool with a big bow attached. But make sure he doesn't think it's part of a "Honey Do" list!
Maybe your husband's not a handyman, but does he run errands for you? Let you go first? Take care of you when you are sick? Help you make decisions? Praise him for his willingness to serve others. Let him know that you see his unique service as a great strength.
Monday, March 17, 2008
Let the Challenge begin!
30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives
We're so glad you've decided to accept the "30-Day Encouragement Challenge" to encourage your husband! Your decision means that you truly want to be a blessing in your home. This challenge will also result in spiritual growth in your own life.
We'd like to encourage you to keep track of what God does in your marriage over this next month. We hope you'll take time to share what God does in your home as you bless and encourage your spouse.
Day One:
"The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life." Prov. 31:11-12
To refresh your memory...here's the 30-Day Encouragement Challenge...for the next 30 days:
* You can't say anything negative about your husband ...to your husband...or to anyone else, about your husband.
* Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband...to your husband...and to someone else, about your husband!
To help you get started, have you ever thanked your husband for "choosing you" above all other women? He found you attractive as a person, and appreciated you. Though many circumstances in your marriage may have changed, let your husband know that you are glad God led you together, and that you want to be a blessing to him for the rest of your marriage. Let him know that he can trust you to be in his corner.
One of the best opportunities to express your gratitude is first thing in the morning. How do you greet your husband each morning? Is he confident in your love? Give him a "wake up call" that he'll never forget-a big "I love you" and an "I'm so glad I'm your wife!"
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I sent Tom an email this morning, thanking him for being a Godly man and letting him know how blessed I am to share our life together.
We're so glad you've decided to accept the "30-Day Encouragement Challenge" to encourage your husband! Your decision means that you truly want to be a blessing in your home. This challenge will also result in spiritual growth in your own life.
We'd like to encourage you to keep track of what God does in your marriage over this next month. We hope you'll take time to share what God does in your home as you bless and encourage your spouse.
Day One:
"The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life." Prov. 31:11-12
To refresh your memory...here's the 30-Day Encouragement Challenge...for the next 30 days:
* You can't say anything negative about your husband ...to your husband...or to anyone else, about your husband.
* Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband...to your husband...and to someone else, about your husband!
To help you get started, have you ever thanked your husband for "choosing you" above all other women? He found you attractive as a person, and appreciated you. Though many circumstances in your marriage may have changed, let your husband know that you are glad God led you together, and that you want to be a blessing to him for the rest of your marriage. Let him know that he can trust you to be in his corner.
One of the best opportunities to express your gratitude is first thing in the morning. How do you greet your husband each morning? Is he confident in your love? Give him a "wake up call" that he'll never forget-a big "I love you" and an "I'm so glad I'm your wife!"
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I sent Tom an email this morning, thanking him for being a Godly man and letting him know how blessed I am to share our life together.
Saturday, March 15, 2008
30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives
I'm going to be taking this challenge, and I'm inviting all wives reading my blog to do the same! I took this challenge a couple of years ago, and it's time I do it again. So join me, and let's see how God uses this to change our hearts and minds towards the man that God has gifted us with.
30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives PDF
30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives
30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives PDF
30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives
Friday, March 14, 2008
Change
You know, when I was young, I really, really loathed change. I did. Hated it with a passion. As I've gotten older/wiser I've found change has to happen for growth to take place. There is a saying, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results."
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Things are
pretty much status quo for the moment. I need to update about a few things, really quick here.
Mikaija is in Trek, which is the AWANA for middle school kids. Trek had their Bible Quiz/Games last Saturday in a neighboring town, and the team that Mikaija was on got a 4th place ribbon! They went on to secure 3rd place in the Games. We went to a pizza place with the team after and the kids had a great time.
Kayla is busy studying for SAT's. We have her appointment with the photog for her senior portraits, and I'm working on gathering her pics for the power point for graduation.
Kris is on spring break, and has spent the first couple of days in bed sick! Better this week then when he's in school. Friday, he and Tom are going out to see Nick and go shooting. With guns. At a range. LOL
Tom is still riding/running and working hard.
I'm trying to tread water waiting on a couple of things to happen, and then we will see where I am.
We are continuing on in our homeschooling, since that ruling has been appealed and could be in court till Mikaija graduates. The Governator and the Super. of Instruction for the state are behind homeschoolers, so no worries there.
Mikaija is in Trek, which is the AWANA for middle school kids. Trek had their Bible Quiz/Games last Saturday in a neighboring town, and the team that Mikaija was on got a 4th place ribbon! They went on to secure 3rd place in the Games. We went to a pizza place with the team after and the kids had a great time.
Kayla is busy studying for SAT's. We have her appointment with the photog for her senior portraits, and I'm working on gathering her pics for the power point for graduation.
Kris is on spring break, and has spent the first couple of days in bed sick! Better this week then when he's in school. Friday, he and Tom are going out to see Nick and go shooting. With guns. At a range. LOL
Tom is still riding/running and working hard.
I'm trying to tread water waiting on a couple of things to happen, and then we will see where I am.
We are continuing on in our homeschooling, since that ruling has been appealed and could be in court till Mikaija graduates. The Governator and the Super. of Instruction for the state are behind homeschoolers, so no worries there.
Friday, March 07, 2008
Homeschooling in California
It's all over the airwaves, the internet, newscasts and news papers about the recent court decision regarding one family that homeschools here in CA. We are taking a deep breath, praying and keeping our heads.
HSLDA does have a petition to depublish the ruling at
Depublishing California Court Decision Please feel free to sign it.
Here is a couple of links to articles regarding this case:
Homeschooling Illegal in California?
Stephen Frank
HSLDA does have a petition to depublish the ruling at
Depublishing California Court Decision Please feel free to sign it.
Here is a couple of links to articles regarding this case:
Homeschooling Illegal in California?
Stephen Frank
Thursday, March 06, 2008
God VS. Science
A science professor begins his school year with a lecture to the students, "Let me explain the problem science has with religion." The atheist professor of philosophy pauses before his class and then asks one of his new students to stand.
"You're a Christian, aren't you, son?"
"Yes sir," the student says.
"So you believe in God?"
"Absolutely."
"Is God good?"
"Sure! God's good."
"Is God all-powerful? Can God do anything?"
"Yes."
"Are you good or evil?"
"The Bible says I'm evil."
The professor grins knowingly. "Aha! The Bible!" He considers for a moment. "Here's one for you. Let's say there's a sick person over here and you can cure him. You can do it. Would you help him? Would you try?"
"Yes sir, I would."
"So you're good...!"
"I wouldn't say that."
"But why not say that? You'd help a sick and maimed person if you could. Most of us would if we could. But God doesn't."
The student does not answer, so the professor continues. "He doesn't, does he? My brother was a Christian who died of cancer, even though he prayed to Jesus to heal him. How is this Jesus good? Hmmm? Can you answer that one?"
The student remains silent.
"No, you can't, can you?" the professor says. He takes a sip of water from a glass on his desk to give the student time to relax.
"Let's start again, young fella. Is God good?"
"Er...yes," the student says.
"Is Satan good?"
The student doesn't hesitate on this one. "No."
"Then where does Satan come from?"
The student falters. "From God"
"That's right. God made Satan, didn't he? Tell me, son. Is there evil in this world?"
"Yes, sir."
"Evil's everywhere, isn't it? And God did make everything, correct?"
"Yes."
"So who created evil?" The professor continued, "If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principle that our works define who we are, then God is evil."
Again, the student has no answer. "Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things, do they exist in this world?"
The student squirms on his feet. "Yes."
"So who created them?"
The student does not answer again, so the professor repeats his question. "Who created them?" There is still no answer. Suddenly the lecturer breaks away to pace in front of the classroom. The class is mesmerized. "Tell me," he continues onto another student. "Do you believe in Jesus Christ, son?"
The student's voice betrays him and cracks. "Yes, professor, I do."
The old man stops pacing. "Science says you have five senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Have you ever seen Jesus?"
"No sir. I've never seen Him."
"Then tell us if you've ever heard your Jesus?"
"No, sir, I have not."
"Have you ever felt your Jesus, tasted your Jesus or smelt your Jesus? Have you ever had any sensory perception of Jesus Christ, or God for that matter?"
"No, sir, I'm afraid I haven't."
"Yet you still believe in him?"
"Yes."
"According to the rules of empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your God doesn't exist. What do you say to that, son?"
"Nothing," the student replies. "I only have my faith."
"Yes, faith," the professor repeats. "And that is the problem science has with God. There is no evidence, only faith."
The student stands quietly for a moment, before asking a question of His own. "Professor, is there such thing as heat?"
"Yes," the professor replies. "There's heat."
"And is there such a thing as cold?"
"Yes, son, there's cold too."
"No sir, there isn't."
The professor turns to face the student, obviously interested. The room suddenly becomes very quiet. The student begins to explain. "You can have lots of heat, even more heat, super-heat, mega-heat, unlimited heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat, but we don't have anything called 'cold'. We can hit up to 458 degrees below zero, which is no heat, but we can't go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold; otherwise we would be able to go colder than the lowest -458 degrees."
"Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-458 F) is the total absence of heat. You see, sir, cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat we can measure in thermal units because heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it."
Silence across the room. A pen drops somewhere in the classroom, sounding like a hammer.
"What about darkness, professor. Is there such a thing as darkness?"
"Yes," the professor replies without hesitation. "What is night if it isn't darkness?"
"You're wrong again, sir. Darkness is not something; it is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light, but if you have no light constantly you have nothing and it's called darkness, isn't it? That's the meaning we use to define the word."
"In reality, darkness isn't. If it were, you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn't you?"
The professor begins to smile at the student in front of him. This will be a good semester. "So what point are you making, young man?"
"Yes, professor. My point is, your philosophical premise is flawed to start with, and so your conclusion must also be flawed."
The professor's face cannot hide his surprise this time. "Flawed? Can you explain how?"
"You are working on the premise of duality," the student explains. "You argue that there is life and then there's death; a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can't even explain a thought."
"It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is not the opposite of life, just the absence of it."
"Now tell me, professor. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?"
"If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, young man, yes, of course I do."
"Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?"
The professor begins to shake his head, still smiling, as he realizes where the argument is going. A very good semester, indeed.
"Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you now not a scientist, but a preacher?"
The class is in uproar. The student remains silent until the commotion has subsided.
"To continue the point you were making earlier to the other student, let me give you an example of what I mean."
The student looks around the room. "Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the professor's brain?" The class breaks out into laughter.
"Is there anyone here who has ever heard the professor's brain, felt the professor's brain, touched or smelt the professor's brain? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, with all due respect, sir."
"So if science says you have no brain, how can we trust your lectures, sir?"
Now the room is silent. The professor just stares at the student, his face unreadable.
Finally, after what seems an eternity, the old man answers. "I guess you'll have to take them on faith."
"Now, you accept that there is faith, and, in fact, faith exists with life," the student continues. "Now, sir, is there such a thing as evil?"
Now uncertain, the professor responds, "Of course, there is. We see it everyday. It is in the daily example of man's inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil."
To this the student replied, "Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light."
The professor sat down.
"You're a Christian, aren't you, son?"
"Yes sir," the student says.
"So you believe in God?"
"Absolutely."
"Is God good?"
"Sure! God's good."
"Is God all-powerful? Can God do anything?"
"Yes."
"Are you good or evil?"
"The Bible says I'm evil."
The professor grins knowingly. "Aha! The Bible!" He considers for a moment. "Here's one for you. Let's say there's a sick person over here and you can cure him. You can do it. Would you help him? Would you try?"
"Yes sir, I would."
"So you're good...!"
"I wouldn't say that."
"But why not say that? You'd help a sick and maimed person if you could. Most of us would if we could. But God doesn't."
The student does not answer, so the professor continues. "He doesn't, does he? My brother was a Christian who died of cancer, even though he prayed to Jesus to heal him. How is this Jesus good? Hmmm? Can you answer that one?"
The student remains silent.
"No, you can't, can you?" the professor says. He takes a sip of water from a glass on his desk to give the student time to relax.
"Let's start again, young fella. Is God good?"
"Er...yes," the student says.
"Is Satan good?"
The student doesn't hesitate on this one. "No."
"Then where does Satan come from?"
The student falters. "From God"
"That's right. God made Satan, didn't he? Tell me, son. Is there evil in this world?"
"Yes, sir."
"Evil's everywhere, isn't it? And God did make everything, correct?"
"Yes."
"So who created evil?" The professor continued, "If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principle that our works define who we are, then God is evil."
Again, the student has no answer. "Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things, do they exist in this world?"
The student squirms on his feet. "Yes."
"So who created them?"
The student does not answer again, so the professor repeats his question. "Who created them?" There is still no answer. Suddenly the lecturer breaks away to pace in front of the classroom. The class is mesmerized. "Tell me," he continues onto another student. "Do you believe in Jesus Christ, son?"
The student's voice betrays him and cracks. "Yes, professor, I do."
The old man stops pacing. "Science says you have five senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Have you ever seen Jesus?"
"No sir. I've never seen Him."
"Then tell us if you've ever heard your Jesus?"
"No, sir, I have not."
"Have you ever felt your Jesus, tasted your Jesus or smelt your Jesus? Have you ever had any sensory perception of Jesus Christ, or God for that matter?"
"No, sir, I'm afraid I haven't."
"Yet you still believe in him?"
"Yes."
"According to the rules of empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your God doesn't exist. What do you say to that, son?"
"Nothing," the student replies. "I only have my faith."
"Yes, faith," the professor repeats. "And that is the problem science has with God. There is no evidence, only faith."
The student stands quietly for a moment, before asking a question of His own. "Professor, is there such thing as heat?"
"Yes," the professor replies. "There's heat."
"And is there such a thing as cold?"
"Yes, son, there's cold too."
"No sir, there isn't."
The professor turns to face the student, obviously interested. The room suddenly becomes very quiet. The student begins to explain. "You can have lots of heat, even more heat, super-heat, mega-heat, unlimited heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat, but we don't have anything called 'cold'. We can hit up to 458 degrees below zero, which is no heat, but we can't go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold; otherwise we would be able to go colder than the lowest -458 degrees."
"Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-458 F) is the total absence of heat. You see, sir, cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat we can measure in thermal units because heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it."
Silence across the room. A pen drops somewhere in the classroom, sounding like a hammer.
"What about darkness, professor. Is there such a thing as darkness?"
"Yes," the professor replies without hesitation. "What is night if it isn't darkness?"
"You're wrong again, sir. Darkness is not something; it is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light, but if you have no light constantly you have nothing and it's called darkness, isn't it? That's the meaning we use to define the word."
"In reality, darkness isn't. If it were, you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn't you?"
The professor begins to smile at the student in front of him. This will be a good semester. "So what point are you making, young man?"
"Yes, professor. My point is, your philosophical premise is flawed to start with, and so your conclusion must also be flawed."
The professor's face cannot hide his surprise this time. "Flawed? Can you explain how?"
"You are working on the premise of duality," the student explains. "You argue that there is life and then there's death; a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can't even explain a thought."
"It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is not the opposite of life, just the absence of it."
"Now tell me, professor. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?"
"If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, young man, yes, of course I do."
"Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?"
The professor begins to shake his head, still smiling, as he realizes where the argument is going. A very good semester, indeed.
"Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you now not a scientist, but a preacher?"
The class is in uproar. The student remains silent until the commotion has subsided.
"To continue the point you were making earlier to the other student, let me give you an example of what I mean."
The student looks around the room. "Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the professor's brain?" The class breaks out into laughter.
"Is there anyone here who has ever heard the professor's brain, felt the professor's brain, touched or smelt the professor's brain? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, with all due respect, sir."
"So if science says you have no brain, how can we trust your lectures, sir?"
Now the room is silent. The professor just stares at the student, his face unreadable.
Finally, after what seems an eternity, the old man answers. "I guess you'll have to take them on faith."
"Now, you accept that there is faith, and, in fact, faith exists with life," the student continues. "Now, sir, is there such a thing as evil?"
Now uncertain, the professor responds, "Of course, there is. We see it everyday. It is in the daily example of man's inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil."
To this the student replied, "Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light."
The professor sat down.
Wednesday, March 05, 2008
Hawk Nelson Concert
Last night was the Hawk Nelson Concert at church.
We get to church about 4:30 and I find out that we can upgrade our tickets for $10, get a "Green T-shirt" and are allowed in for the meet and greet! BTW, that scored me the "I am THE mom!" rights for the night. ;-) In the mean time, we hook up with Kris and Amber, who because they were crew members could go in early, and Amber saved us seats, so when we finally got inside the sanctuary, we had seats third row in from the front. Many of the normal seats had been moved out to make way for the crowd that likes to stand upfront. Unfortunately only crew/workers were allowed in the balcony, which in my opinion would have been the BEST place to see the show. After we got in and settled, we didn't see Kayla or Mikaija till the show was over! LOL
The Meet and Greet was with Jason and Daniel. They talked a bit about what was happening, played samples of a few songs from their new album coming out April 1st, via an Ipod hooked up to the system. Jason's testimony about a song he wrote regarding his grandmother's death and questioning his faith, hit Kayla right where she is in her walk, and I'm so thankful he shared that with the crowd.
Opening band was Capital Lights, and boy they were GOOD! I see them as an up and coming Christian Band. It was really cool to watch these rockers do a Hannah Montana tribute by playing "Best of Both Worlds." Of course, the crowd went WILD!
Next up was Run, Kid, Run! and they were also good!
And then we have Hawk Nelson, and they blew the doors off the building! Jason, I have to say is not only very cute, but he is a VERY nice guy. One of my favorite numbers was "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!" and they dedicated it to all the parents in the crowd. LOL HN is a Compassion band, and of course, they talked about Compassion and what they do. Tom caught me tearing up, knowing I was thinking about Evie at that moment, and gave me a hug. (Evie was a dear online friend that recently lost her earthly battle with cancer, but has her victory with the Lord, and I have NO doubt she is helping to lead worship in Heaven. She was an employee of Compassion during her struggle.)
While I stood in the HN line for signitures, Mikaija got the other two bands to sign her shirt and poster, and then we waited for a bit to finally get HN to sign it. We waited till they were done with the line, and then took a pic with Jason and Daniel.
The concert was fun, and energizing. It was also wonderful to see people we hadn't seen in awhile.
We get to church about 4:30 and I find out that we can upgrade our tickets for $10, get a "Green T-shirt" and are allowed in for the meet and greet! BTW, that scored me the "I am THE mom!" rights for the night. ;-) In the mean time, we hook up with Kris and Amber, who because they were crew members could go in early, and Amber saved us seats, so when we finally got inside the sanctuary, we had seats third row in from the front. Many of the normal seats had been moved out to make way for the crowd that likes to stand upfront. Unfortunately only crew/workers were allowed in the balcony, which in my opinion would have been the BEST place to see the show. After we got in and settled, we didn't see Kayla or Mikaija till the show was over! LOL
The Meet and Greet was with Jason and Daniel. They talked a bit about what was happening, played samples of a few songs from their new album coming out April 1st, via an Ipod hooked up to the system. Jason's testimony about a song he wrote regarding his grandmother's death and questioning his faith, hit Kayla right where she is in her walk, and I'm so thankful he shared that with the crowd.
Opening band was Capital Lights, and boy they were GOOD! I see them as an up and coming Christian Band. It was really cool to watch these rockers do a Hannah Montana tribute by playing "Best of Both Worlds." Of course, the crowd went WILD!
Next up was Run, Kid, Run! and they were also good!
And then we have Hawk Nelson, and they blew the doors off the building! Jason, I have to say is not only very cute, but he is a VERY nice guy. One of my favorite numbers was "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!" and they dedicated it to all the parents in the crowd. LOL HN is a Compassion band, and of course, they talked about Compassion and what they do. Tom caught me tearing up, knowing I was thinking about Evie at that moment, and gave me a hug. (Evie was a dear online friend that recently lost her earthly battle with cancer, but has her victory with the Lord, and I have NO doubt she is helping to lead worship in Heaven. She was an employee of Compassion during her struggle.)
While I stood in the HN line for signitures, Mikaija got the other two bands to sign her shirt and poster, and then we waited for a bit to finally get HN to sign it. We waited till they were done with the line, and then took a pic with Jason and Daniel.
The concert was fun, and energizing. It was also wonderful to see people we hadn't seen in awhile.
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Monday, March 03, 2008
GOC and other things
Okay, the service on Wednesday, was wonderful! Jeff picked many of my favorite worship songs for us to sing. Mikaija looked great in her costume, and the Chinese Dragon was very cool! We had 50 missionaries from around the world at our church. Lots of lives were changed over the course of the conference. After the service, we went to the fellowship hall to view the displays and of course to partake in the chocolate fountains and strawberries along with other 'dipping' items. While upstairs, I was blessed to run into a friend that was here on a 24 hour turn around to renew her driver's license. It was good to send hugs back to her family with her, as they leave training for overseas in a few weeks.
Friday was the International Banquet. I was at church at 9 a.m. to help my friends from my Sunday School class put the finishing touches on the tables and sanctuary. This banquet turns our sanctuary into a dining hall, which is very cool, IMHO. After we got things squared away at the church, my friends and I took the wife of our missionary to lunch at a beautiful outside Mexican Restarant in an old mission not far from here. We sat outside and had a great lunch. After lunch, I came home, put my feet up for a little bit, then was back at church at 5 p.m. to help with any last minute details. Mikaija had to be there at 5 p.m., as she was helping with the International Kids Banquet. The Banquet was wonderful. We sat at a table with a missionary from CEE, and he always has great stories to tell. This particular missionary has been in/with our class for several years for GOC, or when he's stateside, so there is a relationship there. Anyway, AFTER the banquet, we all went back upstairs to talk with the missionaries more, AND have MORE chocolate fountain munchies.
Saturday morning I get a call from Gina at 6:45 a.m. to let us know that Upward had been cancelled due to rain. All I could say was, "Praise God!" and go back to sleep! LOL Tom did meet the men in our class and two missionaries at the little coffee place for their Saturday study. The rest of us stayed home and recooped. Saturday evening we met at our teachers home for a briefing with our missionary and his wife. They updated us on the people group they shared with us last year, and the amazing things God has been doing there. They shared with us about another people group, which are dear to their hearts. They also challenged us to stay involved in missions, in whatever way we can. There is talk of our guys that are cyclists doing a prayer ride in the country the missionaries serve. That's right up Tom's alley, so we will see what happens there.
Sunday, our missionary was in our class and he did a great lesson, and once again challenged us to heed God's call. Service was great as usual, and God definitely answered some prayers we had during the service. Sunday evening, Mikaija and I were in our GEMS group and we had a missionary from Mexico come talk with the girls for a few minutes. This missionary is from our church, and has family that is in our class, and it's always a pleasure to see her. She blessed us with what she shared, and the rest of the evening we spent working on our missions badge. The girls wrote notes for a precious little boy, whose family is returning to the mission field, and he's going through a tough adjustment period. Soon he will be smiling when he gets notes in the mail from our girls letting him know that our GEMS are praying for him and his parents. We were able to say goodbye to the missionaries one last time after GEMS, and we are praying for safety for all those who participated in this years GOC.
OH, and we of course, had MORE chocolate fountain munchies.
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We had a bit of excitement when we returned from lunch yesterday. Due to the high winds, one of the power lines in our back yard came down and landed IN the pool! Thankfully, the dogs didn't try to drink the pool water and no one was injured. It took Edison 6 hours to get here to make the yard safe, and this morning they finally showed up to fix the line. Our neighbors south of us have has partial power since the line fell.
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Please continue to pray for us, as we need wisdom regarding a situation.
Friday was the International Banquet. I was at church at 9 a.m. to help my friends from my Sunday School class put the finishing touches on the tables and sanctuary. This banquet turns our sanctuary into a dining hall, which is very cool, IMHO. After we got things squared away at the church, my friends and I took the wife of our missionary to lunch at a beautiful outside Mexican Restarant in an old mission not far from here. We sat outside and had a great lunch. After lunch, I came home, put my feet up for a little bit, then was back at church at 5 p.m. to help with any last minute details. Mikaija had to be there at 5 p.m., as she was helping with the International Kids Banquet. The Banquet was wonderful. We sat at a table with a missionary from CEE, and he always has great stories to tell. This particular missionary has been in/with our class for several years for GOC, or when he's stateside, so there is a relationship there. Anyway, AFTER the banquet, we all went back upstairs to talk with the missionaries more, AND have MORE chocolate fountain munchies.
Saturday morning I get a call from Gina at 6:45 a.m. to let us know that Upward had been cancelled due to rain. All I could say was, "Praise God!" and go back to sleep! LOL Tom did meet the men in our class and two missionaries at the little coffee place for their Saturday study. The rest of us stayed home and recooped. Saturday evening we met at our teachers home for a briefing with our missionary and his wife. They updated us on the people group they shared with us last year, and the amazing things God has been doing there. They shared with us about another people group, which are dear to their hearts. They also challenged us to stay involved in missions, in whatever way we can. There is talk of our guys that are cyclists doing a prayer ride in the country the missionaries serve. That's right up Tom's alley, so we will see what happens there.
Sunday, our missionary was in our class and he did a great lesson, and once again challenged us to heed God's call. Service was great as usual, and God definitely answered some prayers we had during the service. Sunday evening, Mikaija and I were in our GEMS group and we had a missionary from Mexico come talk with the girls for a few minutes. This missionary is from our church, and has family that is in our class, and it's always a pleasure to see her. She blessed us with what she shared, and the rest of the evening we spent working on our missions badge. The girls wrote notes for a precious little boy, whose family is returning to the mission field, and he's going through a tough adjustment period. Soon he will be smiling when he gets notes in the mail from our girls letting him know that our GEMS are praying for him and his parents. We were able to say goodbye to the missionaries one last time after GEMS, and we are praying for safety for all those who participated in this years GOC.
OH, and we of course, had MORE chocolate fountain munchies.
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We had a bit of excitement when we returned from lunch yesterday. Due to the high winds, one of the power lines in our back yard came down and landed IN the pool! Thankfully, the dogs didn't try to drink the pool water and no one was injured. It took Edison 6 hours to get here to make the yard safe, and this morning they finally showed up to fix the line. Our neighbors south of us have has partial power since the line fell.
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Please continue to pray for us, as we need wisdom regarding a situation.
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